Blanket Party --A form of hazing or “correction” reportedly employed in the military; a blanket is thrown over the victim’s head, and they are then assaulted. Could be pervertible into a BDSM context as a form of “surprise party”.
blindfold --
a
cloth used to cover the eyes
Blood Play -- (See cutting or blood sports) The drawing of blood during play.
body modification -- Refers
to any kind of procedure that deliberately changes or enhances the body for
aesthetic or personal reasons, but especially certain forms of body art such as
piercing, stretching, scarification and tattooing.
body piercing -- Body
piercing usually refers to the piercing of a part of the human body for the
purpose of wearing jewelry in the opening created. Body piercing is a form of
body modification. The word "piercing" can refer to the act or
practice of body piercing, or to a specific pierced opening in the body.
body service -- Body
service refers to the attention a submissive gives to their Dominant's personal
hygiene, ie. bathing, grooming.
body worship -- Body
worship is a very general term for the BDSM practice of one person physically
reverencing a part of another person's body. Typical are foot worship and ass
worship.
Body Worship -- To show respect to every part of the Dominant’s body, often by kissing, licking, or sucking. May involve ritual components.
bondage -- involves
people being tied up or otherwise restrained for pleasure. Bondage is usually,
but not always, a sexual practice. The paraphilia of being sexually aroused by
bondage is sometimes known as vincilagnia. Studies in the U.S. have shown
that about three quarters of all men find the idea of bondage to be erotic; many
women do as well. As with any study of sexual thoughts and behavior, the
available studies are not well controlled and the best studies are now out of
date.
bondage and discipline -- BDSM
is a term which describes a number of related patterns of human sexual behaviour.
The major subgroupings are described in the abbreviation "BDSM"
itself:*Bondage (BD)*Bondage & Discipline (B&D)*Domination &
submission (D&S, DS, D/S)*Sadism & Masochism (or Sadomasochism)
(S&M, SM)
bondage belt --
is a wide waist belt used in bondage, sporting D-rings or attachment points. It
is a physical restraint popular in BDSM play and usually used as an anchoring
point for other restraints such as bondage cuffs. Bondage belts may also be worn
as fetish clothing.
Most bondage belts are made of fabric or leather as these materials tend to
be more comfortable and better distribute pressure over the skin. The belts
usually fasten with buckles; some feature locking means.
The belt itself should never be used to hold one's weight in suspension
bondage, as it may slip upward to bear pressure on the lower ribs and/or cut
into the diaphragm and interfere with breathing.
Medical restraints similar to bondage belts exist for institutional use as
bed and wheelchair restraints.
Lengths of simple leather strapping with buckles are sometimes also referred
to as bondage belts, because they can be used quickly to bind limbs.
bondage cuffs --
restraints designed for the practice of consensual sexual bondage. They are wide
wrist and ankle restraints generally made of leather, often padded with soft
leather or fake fur. They are secured around the wrist or ankle, and the cuff is
then attached to another cuff or other object.
They are often equipped with D-ring attachments or buckles to fit nylon
webbing restraints.
They are typically used as a set of four to attach each wrist cuff (directly
or indirectly) to the corresponding ankle cuff, thus putting the wearer in a
sexually vulnerable position. This is a convenient way to create a hogtie.
Alternatively, a pair of ankle cuffs can be used together with thigh-width
straps to create a frogtie.
They can also be used in conjunction with leg spreaders.
Bondage cuffs are designed to be safer than handcuffs. The use of handcuffs,
even with soft coverings, for bondage can, in some instances, lead to severe and
permanent damage of nerves, blood vessels, and body extremities. Unlike bondage
cuffs, the primary design goals of handcuffs are not comfort and safety, but
immobilization and prevention of escape.
Ordinary bondage cuffs are not designed to be safe when used to carry any
significant load. Suspension cuffs are a specialized form of bondage cuffs,
designed to be used to suspend the body during suspension bondage without
injury.
bondage equipment -- any
item that assist in bounding another individual
bondage furniture --
racks, kneelers, riding horses are all considered bondage furniture also
called Dungeon furniture in a BDSM sense.
bondage harness --
is a series of leather straps, typically between 1 and 2 cm wide, attached
together in such a way as to allow a person to "wear" the item. The
item can be worn by both men and women. However, modifications may be needed
depending on which sex wears the item. The item is very closely associated with
BDSM play, and is often immediately identifiable as being something to do with
"bondage" when depicted. Often, the image of a person in a bondage
harness is used by movie studios to provide a chiché of a "person into
fetish play". Other publications have also been known to use this cliché,
a good example being the comic book series and movie "Sin City", which
has one of its characters wearing a bondage harness.
bondage hood --
a
gimp mask or bondage mask) is a fetishistic hood.It may be made from rubber,
latex, PVC, spandex, darlex or leather.
bondage magazine -- pornography
specializes in the depiction of sexual bondage or BDSM activities, as
photographs, ...
bondage mitten (or mitt) --
(sometimes
called bondage mitts) are pouch-like coverings that fasten securely
around the wrists, holding the hands in closed fists or palms flat. They are
often used in BDSM play.
Unlike mittens for cold-weather use, bondage mittens are tubes or bags
without a separate thumb and are typically made of leather or some other stiff
material to prevent the wearer from grasping through the material of the
mittens. With the 'palms flat' type they can either be stiff and close-fitting
making it impossible to close the hand into a fist or supple allowing the hand
to be bent over and fixed to the wrist. Both types often include a ring at the
tip to which ropes can be connected for further tying-up.
Similar mitten-like devices exist for institutional use as patient
restraints.
bondage opera gloves -- Lace
up bondage sleeves that usually have D rings to fasten and buckles to keep it on
the arms
bondage position -- any
position used in a Bondage situation for BDSM play
bondage rigger -- bondage
rigger is person who ties up others primarily as an art form, as opposed to
people who do this to immobilize a bottom to prepare them for other forms of
BDSM like flogging.
bondage rope harness -- sometime
also referred to as a bondage web, rope web, rope dress or karada,
is a bondage technique involving the tying of an intricate structure of rope
around the body in a complex web-like fashion.
Similar in effect to a leather bondage harness, a bondage rope harness is not
in itself normally used to bind a person, but it does apply pressure over the
area bound and can be used as a securing point for other bondage techniques,
including suspension bondage. It is not normally used to bind the limbs but you
can bind the arms into the harness by simply going around the arms not under, as
shown in the picture. A rope dress is often used with, or integrated with, a
crotch rope and/or a shinju ("pearl") breast harness.
A rope dress typically takes around 10-15 m of rope to tie, and involves
multiple passes of rope from front to back around the body to build up the
characteristic diamond-shaped rope pattern, typically starting from a rope
halter (as in the illustration) and moving down the body. In some cases, a rope
harness may extend beyond the torso, into diamond-patterned webs that extend
down the length of the arms or legs.
The Japanese term karada means simply "body". Traditionally,
a distinction was made between kikkou ("turtle-shell" pattern;
hexagonal) and hishi (diamond) patterned ties, although many modern
sources just use the term kikkou to refer to any rope body harness
bondage sushi bar -- often
referred to as "body sushi", is the practice of eating sashimi or
sushi from the body of a woman, typically naked. As a result of being served on
a human body, the temperature of the sushi or sashimi comes closer to body
temperature, which some may see as a disadvantage or a benefit.
bondage table --
A table designed specifically for bondage. Normally contains 20 or more
bondage points. Usually covered in leather or vinyl
bondage tape --
is
a 2-3 inch wide strip of thin plastic material that adheres only to itself,
without any adhesive, that is typically intended to be used in erotic bondage.
Since it does not stick to the hair or skin, a bottom can be tightly bound
and/or gagged without causing harm when the tape is removed.
Some tape is thick enough that it can be unwound, unwrinkled and rewound for
reuse, but usually it is simply and quickly removed by cutting it with
blunt-tipped scissors.
If the tape is applied relatively flat on the body, the risk of losing
circulation is minimal. However, until the top has sufficiently practiced, the
tape is easily twisted, in which case it becomes like plastic string and thus
more likely to pinch and possibly cause a loss of circulation.
bondage trousers --
the clothing often worn in the BDSM scene, and which is usually erotic or
revealing in nature. Materials such as leather, latex, nylon, rubber and pvc,
spandex and fishnet are common, as are items of clothing such as stiletto heeled
shoes and boots, corsets and garters. BDSM-specific items such as collars and
face masks are also sometimes worn.
bondage wheel --
one of the largest (and most expensive) pieces of SM equipment found in a BDSM
dungeon. It consists of a large vertically mounted rotating wheel to which the
bondage subject is strapped. In this respect it is similar to a Saint Andrew's
Cross. The difference is the bondage wheel can be rotated allowing the subject
to be turned upside down. The subject can either be strapped facing the wheel
(suitable for whipping) or facing out (for genital access).
The wheel body has various straps for restraint and normally also attachments
for extra rope bondage. There may also be foot rests, hand holds and a head
support. The vast majority of bondage wheels are mounted on walls and there are
only two known self standing wheels in the United States.
Bootblack --One who does military style shoe polishing
boot worship --
is a term for the practice of extreme adulation of boots in BDSM.
It is related to foot worship in a derivative way, in that the adulation may
really be attributable to the proximity of the boots to their owner. If the foot
is usually considered one of the "lowest" and least appreciated parts
of the body, the "sub"'s reverence for the footwear that encloses her
or his dom's foot is a concrete admission of inferiority.
Thus boot worship may include sniffing or inhaling from worn boots, as well
as licking, kissing or cleaning their exteriors. It may also consist, more
passively, of the woman or man lying prone and being "trampled" by her
or his dom. Heeled boots may lend themselves to sucking, in an approximation of
fellatio.
bottom (BDSM) -- refers to
the person who takes on the submissive role for the duration of a scene. This
term is associated with being on the receiving end of bondage, discipline, and
sadism. (Note: this term has significant connotative differences from submissive
or slave.) They may be involved in such acts as bondage, flogging, humiliation,
or servitude from the top.
BoundCon -- is an annual
BDSM convention and trade show held in Munich, Germany, around the middle of
June. It features live performances by bondage models and bondage riggers,
exhibition of BDSM literature and video suppliers, and a "VIP area"
with an exclusive buffet.
brachioproctic eroticism -- Fisting
is a human sexual behaviour that involves inserting the entire hand, and
sometimes part of the arm, into the vagina (vaginal fisting) or anus
(handballing or anal fisting) of a sexual partner. Fisting is also called fist
fucking, sometimes shortened to "FF". The medical terms for these
practices are brachiovaginal eroticism and brachioproctic eroticism (anal).
brachiovaginal eroticism
-- Fisting is a human sexual behaviour that involves inserting the
entire hand, and sometimes part of the arm, into the vagina (vaginal fisting) or
anus (handballing or anal fisting) of a sexual partner. Fisting is also called
fist fucking, sometimes shortened to "FF". The medical terms for these
practices are brachiovaginal eroticism and brachioproctic eroticism (anal).
Gloria Brame -- U.S.
writer and sex therapist based in Athens, Georgia. She has a PhD and MPH in
Human Sexuality and is a licensed clinical sexologist. Her practice specializes
in consensual BDSM and sexual fetishism. She is also a lifestyle dominant.
branding (BDSM) -- in the
BDSM context, refers to the bonding of the partners and marking of the collared
submissive. When branding, a singular, or many, pieces of metal are heated and
then placed upon the skin to burn, leaving a design of some sort.
Brat --A “bratty” submissive has a reputation for talking back, being disrespectful or mildly disobedient. On the surface, this is a negative quality in a submissive; however, a certain amount of “brattiness” is enjoyed by some Dominants, and may in fact be a large component of a power exchange relationship
breast bondage --
is a
technique used in BDSM play. It differs from most bondage techniques in that it
is not intended to restrict the mobility of the tied person directly. However,
it can do so indirectly when it is combined with other techniques. Rope is
usually used, due to its ease of use, but leather straps and even chains can
also be used. A bondage harness can also be used to achieve the same effect as
breast bondage.
breathplay --Erotic
asphyxiation, asphyxiophilia, breath control play, or scarfing, is the practice
of intentionally reducing the amount of oxygen to the brain during sexual
stimulation in order to heighten the received pleasure from orgasm.
Brown Shower --Defecation on a person
Bukkake --Japanese term for a woman being showered by sperm.
bullwhip -- is a
single-tailed whip, usually made of braided leather, which was originally used
as a farmer's tool for working with livestock.
butch -- is a common nickname,
particularly in the 19th and 20th centuries. It also refers to a woman, usually
a lesbian, who self-identifies as such or whose appearance and/or mannerisms are
more masculine than would be considered "tomboyish."
butt hook
(BDSM) -- or an
ass hook is a smooth, J-shaped hook about an inch in diameter, with a smoothly
rounded end designed to be inserted into the anus for bondage (BDSM) and BDSM
play. The hook generally has an attachment point or eye at the other end for a
rope or a chain. Common uses include affixing the hook to the wearer's hair or
anus as a non-load bearing element in a suspension.
butt plug -
are sex toys
designed to be inserted in the anus and rectum for sexual pleasure. In some
ways, they are similar to a dildo, but they tend to be shorter, and to have a
flared end to prevent the device from being lost inside the rectum.
The users of butt plugs include men and women of all sexual preferences.
BYOT --Bring your own toys. Acronym often used in meeting announcements. An excellent measure to discourage the possible spread of disease.
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