
For each item, you need to provide two answers:
Experience
Have you had real time experience with the activity?
Indicate YES or NO next to each item. Write N/A if it does not apply to your gender.
Willingness
Are you willing/open to try an activity?
For each item, indicate the degree to which you are willing to try that particular activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0-5 (see rating scale below).
If you write "no", it means you will not do that under any circumstance (a hard limit). There is nothing wrong with indicating 'no' on an item.
If you do not understand what an activity is, mark that item with a "?".
Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only with your current sex partner(s), but not with casual play partners
Rating Scale for the Submissive
0 - Utterly no desire to do that activity and don’t like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and ordinarily would object to doing it, but you would permit the Dominant to do it if they really wanted it (sometimes called a soft limit)
1 - Don’t want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn’t object it if was asked of you
2 -
Willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you
3 - Usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/occasional basis
4 - You like doing this activity and would like to experience it on a regular basis
5 - Is a wild turn-on for you and you would like it as often as possible
Rating Scale for the Dominant
0 - No experience what so ever in this activity
1 - Have read about this activity and did some research but have yet to experience it.
2 - Have limited hands on experience with this activity
3 - Some experience comfortable performing the
activity
4 - Experienced can comfortably perform this activity
5 - A pro have mentored others on this activity
Please use the comment section for anything you feel the Dom/sub should know about.
i.e. Health issues, reactions to certain activities ect.
There is intentionally some overlap between categories.
Unless otherwise stated, the sub is the recipient/target of the activity
| Activity | Dom's Experience | Sub's Willingness | Comments |
| Abrasion | |||
| Age Play | |||
| Anal Sex | |||
| Anal Plugs Small | |||
| Anal Plugs Large | |||
| Anal Plugs Public Underclothes | |||
| Animal Roles | |||
| Arm and Leg Binders | |||
| Aromas | |||
| Asphyxiation | |||
| Auctioned for Charity | |||
| Ball Stretching | |||
| Bathroom Control | |||
| Bestiality | |||
| Beating (soft) | |||
| Beating (Hard) | |||
| Blindfolding | |||
| Being Serviced Sexually | |||
| Being Bitten | |||
| Breast/Chest Bondage | |||
| Breath Control | |||
| Branding | |||
| Boot Worship | |||
| Bondage (Light) | |||
| Bondage (Heavy) | |||
| Bondage (multi-day) | |||
| Bondage (public under clothing) | |||
| Breast Whipping | |||
| Brown Showers/Scat | |||
| Cages (Locked Inside) | |||
| Caning | |||
| Castration Fantasy | |||
| Catheterization | |||
| Cattle Prod | |||
| Cells/Closets (locking inside of) | |||
| Chains | |||
| Chamber Pot Use | |||
| Chastity Belts | |||
| Chauffeuring | |||
| Choking | |||
| Chores (Domestic Service) | |||
| Clothespins | |||
| Cock Rings/Straps | |||
| Cock Worship | |||
| Collars worn in Private | |||
| Collars worn in Public | |||
| Competition with other subs | |||
| Corsets (wearing Casually) | |||
| Corsets casual wear | |||
| Corsets training | |||
| Cuffs Leather | |||
| Cuffs Metal | |||
| Cutting | |||
| Diapers (Wearing) | |||
| Diapers (Wetting) | |||
| Diapers (soiling) | |||
| Dilation | |||
| Dildos | |||
| Double Penetration | |||
| Electricity | |||
| Enemas (For Cleansing) | |||
| Enemas Retention/Punishment | |||
| Enforced Chastity | |||
| Erotic Dance (For Audience) | |||
| Examinations (Physical) | |||
| Exercise (forced/required) | |||
| Exhibitionism (friends) | |||
| Exhibitionism (strangers) | |||
| Eye Contact Restriction | |||
| Face Slapping | |||
| Fantasy Abandonment | |||
| Fantasy Rape | |||
| Fantasy Gang Rape | |||
| Fear (Being scared) | |||
| Fisting (Anal) | |||
| Fisting (Vaginal) | |||
| Flame Play | |||
| Following Orders | |||
| Foot Worship | |||
| Forced BedWetting | |||
| Forced Dressing | |||
| Forced Eating | |||
| Forced Homosexuality | |||
| Forced Heterosexuality | |||
| Forced Masturbation | |||
| Forced Nudity (Private) | |||
| Forced Nudity (Around others) | |||
| Forced Servitude | |||
| Forced Smoking | |||
| Full Head Hoods | |||
| Gags (cloth) | |||
| Gags (Inflatable) | |||
| Gags (Phallic) | |||
| Gags (Rubber) | |||
| Gags (Tape) | |||
| Gas Mask | |||
| Gates of Hell | |||
| Genital Sex | |||
| Given Away to another Dom (temp) | |||
| Given Away to another Dom (perm) | |||
| Golden Showers | |||
| Gun Play | |||
| Hair Brush Spankings | |||
| Hair Pulling | |||
| Hand Jobs (giving) | |||
| Hand Jobs (Receiving) | |||
| Harems | |||
| Harnessing (leather) | |||
| Harnessing (rope) | |||
| Having Food Chosen for you | |||
| Having Clothing Chosen for you | |||
| Head (giving it) | |||
| Head (receiving it) | |||
| High Heel Wearing | |||
| High Heel Worship | |||
| Homage with Tongue (non sexual) | |||
| Hoods | |||
| Hot oil (on Genitals) | |||
| Hot Waxing | |||
| Housework (doing) | |||
| Human Puppy Dog | |||
| Humiliation (private) | |||
| Humiliation (public) | |||
| Hypnotism | |||
| Ice Cubes | |||
| Immobilization | |||
| Infantilism | |||
| Initiation Rites | |||
| Injections | |||
| Intricate (Japanese) Rope Bondage | |||
| Interrogations | |||
| Kidnapping | |||
| Kneeling | |||
| Knife Play | |||
| Leather Clothing | |||
| Leather Restraints | |||
| Lectures for Misbehavior | |||
| Licking (non sexual) | |||
| Lingerie (wearing) | |||
| Manacles and Irons | |||
| Manicures (giving) | |||
| Massage (giving) | |||
| Massage (Receiving) | |||
| Medical Scenes | |||
| Modeling for Erotic Photos | |||
| Mouth Bits | |||
| Mummifications | |||
| Name Change for scene | |||
| Nipple Clamps | |||
| Nipple rings piercing | |||
| Nipple Weights | |||
| Oral/Anal play (rimming) | |||
| Over the Knee Spanking | |||
| Orgasm Denial | |||
| Orgasms Control | |||
| Outdoor Scenes | |||
| Pain (Severe) | |||
| Pain (Mild) | |||
| Persona Training (in scene) | |||
| Personal Modification (real life) | |||
| Phone Sex (Serving Dom) | |||
| Phone Sex (serving Doms friends) | |||
| Phone Sex (Commercial Provider) | |||
| Piercing Temporary | |||
| Piercing permanent | |||
| Plastic Surgery | |||
| Prison Scenes | |||
| Prostitution (public pretense) | |||
| Prostitution (actual) | |||
| Pony Slave | |||
| public exposure | |||
| Punishment Scene | |||
| Pussy/Cock Whipping | |||
| Pussy Worship | |||
| Riding Crops | |||
| Riding the Horse | |||
| Rituals | |||
| Religious Scenes | |||
| Restrictive rules on Behavior | |||
| Rubber/Latex Clothing | |||
| Rope Body Harness | |||
| Saran Wrap | |||
| Scarification | |||
| Scratching - Getting | |||
| Scratching - Giving | |||
| Sensory Deprivation | |||
| Serving | |||
| Serving as art | |||
| Serving as ashtray | |||
| Serving as Furniture | |||
| Serving as Maid | |||
| Serving as Toilet (urine) | |||
| Serving as Toilet (Feces) | |||
| Serving as waitress/waiter | |||
| Serving Orally (sexually) | |||
| Serving Other Doms (supervised) | |||
| Serving Other Doms (unsupervised) | |||
| Sexual Deprivation (Short term) | |||
| Sexual Deprivation (long term) | |||
| Shaving (Body Hair) | |||
| Skinny Dipping | |||
| Sleep Deprivation | |||
| Sleep Sacks | |||
| Slutty Clothing (Private) | |||
| Slutty Clothing (Public) | |||
| Spandex Clothing | |||
| Spanking | |||
| Speech Restrictions | |||
| Speculums (anal) | |||
| Speculums (Vaginal) | |||
| Spitting | |||
| Spreader Bars | |||
| Standing in Corners | |||
| Stocks | |||
| Straight Jackets | |||
| Strap on Dildos (sucking on) | |||
| Strap on dildos (penetrated by) | |||
| Strap on Dildos (wearing) | |||
| Strapping (Full Body Beating) | |||
| Suspension (Upright) | |||
| Suspension (inverted) | |||
| Supplying New Partners for Dom | |||
| Swallowing Feces | |||
| Swallowing Semen | |||
| Swallowing Urine | |||
| Swapping | |||
| Swinging | |||
| Tampon Training (in ass) | |||
| Tattooing | |||
| Teasing | |||
| TENS | |||
| Thumb Cuffs (Metal) | |||
| Tickling | |||
| Triple Penetration | |||
| Urethral Sounds | |||
| Uniforms | |||
| Vaginal Dildo | |||
| Verbal Humiliation | |||
| Vibrators on Genitals | |||
| Violet Wand | |||
| Voyeurism | |||
| Water Torture | |||
| Waxing (Hair removal) | |||
| Whipping | |||
| Wooden Paddles | |||