On Line Resources -

Lower Lake: Alternative Lake County CA; online magazine. Also holds BDSM classes and workshops. Contact:

Modesto: The Modesto Discussion Group

Sacramento: EroticEdge: BDSM discussion group, especially for newcomers.

FemDommes of Sacramento; open to all submissives and Femdommes

San Francisco Leather Online; listing of leather clubs and events

submissive natalie - los angeles

BDSM Events/Munches - 

The Gathering: Southern California socials

SOCalMunch; SoCalMUNCH covers the following areas: Palm Desert, Rancho Mirage, La Quinta, Indio, Coachella, Thermal, & the Westshores of the Salton Sea.

Berkeley: Womanlink International; women's group, 2124 Kittredge #257, Berkeley CA 94704.

Central California: Chosen Lifestyle

Chico: Chico BDSM Munch

Club X, Inc. Club X, Inc. is San Diego's largest pansexual leather/ BDSM fetish group. Our primary goal is that of education with secondary goals of activism and social activities. We hold monthly meetings to this end. Among those are regular workshops that cover various aspects of safe, sane, consensual, and fun leather BDSM and SM fetish play. We also hold regular social gatherings, special events, play parties, fundraisers, special interest group meetings, and our monthly Board meetings.

Fairfield: Munch, first Sunday of each month, email for info.

C.C.Inc; BDSM socials, run by the same people behind Conquest and Fetish X. Also weekly BDSM membership only parties at Lair de Sade

Lompoc: Lompoc Valley Power Exchange; pansexual munch group, email for info.

Marysville: Marysville Yubacity Munch group. Email:

Monterey: Monterey Bay Kinksters; munches in Monterey & Moss Landing.

North Bay: Munch, third Sunday of each month, email for info.

Orange County Munch Group: Pansexual BDSM Group

Palo Alto/Sunnyvale: The Munch

Petaluma: North Bay Third Sunday Munch

Redding: munch group for northern CA, meets the last Friday of each month. Email for details.

Riverside: Paddlers of Southern California; PSC is a discussion list & munch group for adults in the Southern California area who are involved in the BDSM Lifestyle, and for those who would like to meet others in the BDSM Lifestyle, to share, socialize and interact in a safe, friendly and harmonious atmosphere and environment.

San Diego Social; meets and greets once a month.

San Fernando Valley Munch

East-SF Bay Munch

Sacramento Area Kinksters SAK was formed 1986 in Sacramento, CA to give people who have an interest in BDSM the opportunity to meet with other like-minded people. SAK is a pansexual organization, accepting of all inclinations as long as all participants are consenting adults.

SM Odyssey; Pansexual organization that holds educational classes every month, Includes the San Jose Munch, mens/women/pansexual discussion groups and Play Parties.

Southern Cross

Santa Clarita: Santa Clarita Munch

Santa Cruz: Santa Crux Munch

Studio City: Shadow Lane

Vallejo: The Overlook; offers a monthly event as well as provides event listings in the Northern California area


BDSM Clubs/Groups - 

Dualities Dualities was created to be a safe space for people who enjoy both sides of the D/s or S/m coin to discuss and explore their journey.

Northern California BDSM: social organization for individuals seeking a supportive environment for exploring alternative sexuality.

El Cerrito: La Madrona; femdom couple's group, P.O. Box 1335, El Cerrito CA 94530.

Los Angeles: Avatar Club

Dualities; discussion and munch group for switches

MAsT L.A; A support and discussion group for gay men interested in the Master/slave or Dominant/submissive relationship.

Lair de Sade; A private membership organization established for the pleasure and recreation of BDSM lifestylers. Over 6,700 square feet. multiple buildings, kitchen, 3 bathrooms and basement. 30+ playstations with exquisite BDSM furniture and equipment. Outside patio for socializing and smoking features cast iron patio heaters and a firepit.

Los Angeles boys of leather; a group of submissives who are in service to the local leather community. The term "leatherboy" can refer to people of any age, gender, appearance or sexual orientation who share a common dedication to service and devotion to the leather community.

Los Angeles Girls of Leather; LAgoL is a group focused on providing a welcoming space for leathergirls and to provide service to our local Leather/BDSM community. Leather girls are men and women who find joy in being of service to others. We are slaves, submissives, and bottoms with a feminine heart and include service people of all genders and sexual orientations.

LA Leather Coalition; A pansexual coalition of leather and fetish identified businesses and motorcycle, educational, social and uniform organizations. The LALC facilitates communication and mutual understanding among different segments of the leather/fetish-affiliated community, and promotes unity through cooperative endeavors that offer entertainment, education, social interaction, and community service.

Los Angeles Radical and Wicked Women; A women's group devoted to the educational and social well-being of the women's BDSM, leather, and fetish communities. LARAWW welcomes all women and transfolk, regardless of their sexual orientation or preference. We provide high quality educational programs and information, play parties and social gatherings.

NLA-Los Angeles; 7985 Santa Monica Blvd 109-217, West Hollywood CA 90046

PLAY; A social and educational group for leatherfolk interested in the integration of radical sexuality and spirituality; provides spiritual outreach to the leather/fetish community; fosters leather/fetish understanding within the larger spiritual community. PLAY is open to all adults without regard to gender, age, race, religious/spiritual affiliation or sexual orientation.

Trident International; 1064 Myra Avenue, #32, Los Angeles, CA 90026

The Threshold Society; non-profit educational organization

Marina Del Rey: Threshold; 2554 Lincoln Blvd PMB 1004, Marina Del Rey CA 90291 Phone: (818) 782-1160

Milpitas: MilPitas PlAyers

Stile di vita; Stile di vita (Italian for 'lifestyle') Supports the Male Dominant/female submissive community in California's South Bay providing an intellectual approach to D/s and M/s lifestyles.

Sacramento Valley Leathercorps; gay men's and women's group


San Diego: Club X; P. O. Box 3092, San Diego, CA 92163 Phone: (619) 685-5149 Email:

San Francisco: Cogent Warriors; women's group, 2261 Market #250, San Francisco, CA 94114

Constantines of the Bay Area; men's group

Defenders San Francisco; Catholic leather society

The Exiles; P.O. Box 31266, San Francisco CA 94131 Phone: (415)487-5170

Fifteen Association; men's group, P.O. Box 421302, San Francisco, CA 94142

Gemini; Maledom/femsub couples group

Leathermen's Discussion Group: located at EROS, 2051 Market St., near Church St., San Francisco

San Francisco Girls of Leather; SFgoL provides a source of communication, information, growth and support for Leather girls; educates the community about leathergirls; supports activities within the leather community. Leathergirls are people with a girl's heart, whose primary self-identity is girl. The girl identity is not limited by bio sex, gender, or sexual orientation.

The Stampede; The Bay Area Human Animal Roleplay Society

Society of Janus; P.O. Box 411523, San Francisco, CA 94141 Email:

San Jose: Santa Clara County Leather Association, email

smOdyssey  Whether this is your first foray into sensation or role play or you are a highly-skilled veteran of the leather/BDSM scene, smOdyssey is here for you. By way of classes, workshops, social gatherings, discussion groups, on-line forums, and community outreach events, smOdyssey provides you with many opportunities to share your experience, enthusiasm and enjoyment with peers in the southern San Francisco Bay area and beyond.

The Gathering
Leather WISDOM; women's group, P.O. Box 2519, Santa Clara CA 95055.

XBDSM In California - from Monterey and Santa Cruz to Boulder Creek and San Jose we draw a wide variety of perves interested in the many aspects of Kinky Activities.

Events - 

Calendar of BDSM California Events

Adult Sex Stores - 


Escorts - 

Welcome to Jolene's Boudoir - San Francisco / Berkeley

Adora Los Angeles, CA Escort

San Francisco Cityvibe Escort Guide

Strip Clubs/Night Clubs/Play Space -

Eagle LA; Formerly The Gauntlet II, the Eagle L.A. is Los Angeles' hottest Levi/Leather bar. Always upholding the Leather/Uniform/Fetish ethic, with the hottest leathermen in town

Links; 207 Gough Street, #58, San Francisco, CA 94102 Phone: (415) 695-7955 or (415) 703-7159

Edges; play space, also hosts play parties

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